家长要在孩子成长过程中起到积极作用,其中一个重要前提就是能保证与孩子通畅的交流,但在这个关键点上,许多家庭却出现了问题。常听到一些家长抱怨:孩子不知道怎么了,小时候什么事儿都跟大人说,现在长大了,拿根棍子都捅不出半句话来。乍一听觉得这是正常现象,孩子大了自然就不愿跟大人说话了;如果说有什么 An important prerequisite for parents to play an active role in their children’s growth is to ensure smooth communication with their children, but at this crucial point many families have problems. Often hear some parents complain: Children do not know what happened, as a child what to say to adults, and now grow up, take a stick can not poke a half sentence. At first glance, this is a normal phenomenon, and children naturally do not want to talk to adults; if there is anything