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无论成人或儿童，不可能总是快乐无忧的。所以，家长应尽可能地帮助孩子学会控制自己的情绪，使之向快乐的方向转化。情绪是人在参与某种活动时产生的心理状态。它由４种基本情绪构成：愤怒、恐惧、悲伤、快乐。这如同绘画中红、黄、蓝三原色，其不同的组合构成人的各种情绪状态。随着孩子年龄的增长，父母有必要帮助他们正确理解和恰当地表达３种不良的情绪。当孩子愤怒时 *坚持要求孩子用语言而不是用动作来表达愤怒。当孩子生气时，鼓励他大声讲出来，并尽可能说出原因。*帮助孩子找到愤怒的原因。孩子有时需要成人的提示来回想自己生气的理由，如：“你是不是因为兵兵拿走了你的小汽车才对他发火？”
Whether adults or children, can not always be happy and carefree. Therefore, parents should try their best to help children learn to control their emotions, make it to the happy direction. Emotions are the mental states that people produce when engaging in certain activities. It consists of four basic emotions: anger, fear, sadness and happiness. This is like painting in red, yellow, blue three primary colors, the different combinations constitute a variety of emotional states. As children grow older, it is necessary for parents to help them correctly interpret and appropriately express the three bad emotions. When the child is angry * Insist on asking the child to express their anger in words rather than in action. When the child is angry, encourage him to speak out loud and say the reason as best as possible. * Help children find the cause of anger. Children sometimes need adult cues to think back to the reasons why they are angry, such as: "Did you fire at him because your soldier took your car?