门内有君子,门外君子至;门内有小人,门外小人至。邻里守望,胜于远亲。一日为师,终身为父。文质彬彬,然后君子。有一分谦让,便有一分受益;有一分骄矜,便有一分挫折。待人留恩,处事留智。盛喜中勿许人物,盛怒中勿答人书。语言切勿刺人骨髓,戏谑切勿中人心病。见人背语,勿倾耳窃听 The door has a gentleman, a gentleman to the door; there are villain inside, outside the door to the villain. Neighborhood watch, better than distant relatives. Day for the teacher, lifelong father. Gentle, then gentleman. There is a bit of humility to benefit one point; one point of arrogance, there will be a setback. Treat others to stay good, leave things wise. Sheng Xi no people, never angry people book. Do not punctuate the language of bone marrow, bantering people not heart disease. Becoming an affair, do not let your ears eavesdrop