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批评孩子一定要让孩子做到心服口服,这样才能达到教育孩子的目的。所以批评孩子时一定要讲究方法,要注意以下几点: 1、通常我们批评孩子时总是声色俱厉,如临大敌,在这种情况下孩子容易受到伤害。所以我们不如换一副表情,比如我们可以用凝重表情、严肃的表情来显示我们对待孩子的错误的态度,语调也大可不必高八度。相反可以比平常的声音更低沉一些,缓慢地如谈心般地指出孩子的错误,并注意用眼睛一直看着孩子的眼睛。2、批评孩子一定要客观,实事求事,就事论事。告诉孩子他犯了什么样的错误,帮助他分析犯错误的原因,所犯错误会带来
Criticize the child must let the child be convinced, so as to achieve the purpose of educating children. So when criticizing children must pay attention to the method, should pay attention to the following points: 1, usually when we criticize children always fiercely aggressive, adversity, in which case the child vulnerable. Therefore, we may as well exchange for a facial expression, for example, we can use dignified expression, serious expression to show that we treat the wrong attitude of the child, the tone also need not be ecumenical. On the contrary can be lower than the usual voice Shen Shen, as slowly as the heart pointed out the child’s mistake, and pay attention to the eyes have been watching the child’s eyes. 2, criticize the child must be objective, practical things, things matter. Tell the child what kind of mistake he has made, help him analyze the cause of the error, and the mistake made