改变烦心才能拥有欢喜和快乐,不经常烦恼才能令生活更美好起来。生活不是林黛玉,不会因为忧伤而风情万种。有事烦恼,没有事也烦恼,生活只能是徒增烦恼。马斯洛先生说:“心若改变,你的态度跟着改变;态度改变,你的习惯跟着改变;习惯改变,你的性格跟着改变;性格改变,你的人生跟着改变。”这是说,好的心态决定好的命运,好的习惯决定好的人生。不要以灰色心态去生活,要用欣喜 Change to worry to have joy and happiness, not often worry to make life better. Life is not Lin Daiyu, not because of sadness and style million. There are troubles, nothing is troubling, life can only add to the troubles. Maslow said: “If your heart changes, your attitude will change, your attitude will change, your habits will change, your habits will change, your personality will change, your personality will change and your life will change.” Good attitude determines a good fate, good habits determine a good life. Do not live in a gray state of mind, use joy