“望子成龙”是家长对孩子的期望。但期望不等于现实,成“龙”的只能是少数。即使挤进“龙”群,也未必能保终身无虞。“神童”是凤毛麟角,大多数孩子是普道人。但他们性格各异,短长互见。有的是善于冲刺的小马驹,有的是耐力超群的小牛犊……将来都能在社会中找到发挥自己才能的位置,但不定是成“龙”。家长的良好愿望一旦脱离实际且化为固执的强求,那么不幸便会频频出现。过重的学习负担剥夺了不少孩子童年的欢乐,厌学弃学的心理由此滋生。家长的一厢情愿代替了孩子的自主选择,抑其所爱而强其所恶,“拉郎配”的恶果必不可 “Succeed” is the parents of children’s expectations. However, the expectation is not equal to the reality. Only a minority can become “dragons.” Even squeeze into the “dragon” group, it may not be able to protect themselves. “Prodigy” is rare, most children are Pudao. However, they are different in personality and meet with each other. Some are good sprint foal, some are superb endurance calves ... ... in the future will be able to find their own place to play their talent, but not necessarily as a “dragon.” Once the good wishes of parents are removed from reality and turned into stubborn demands, the unfortunate happens frequently. Excessive learning burden deprived many children’s childhood joy, tired of learning to give up psychology thus breeding. Parents wishful thinking instead of the child’s own choice, to suppress their loved ones and their evil, “Latin America with” the consequences must not