在我自己学钢琴的时候.就听到过这样的话:不许随便弹教师布置的作业之外的东西,否则会弹出毛病。至今许多家长心中仍然保持这个信条,不敢越雷池一步,生怕孩子弹些自己喜欢的东西而弹出毛病。总的来说,这种观念和我们一直反对的“学琴过于专业化”的追求是一脉相承的——要求最正规的弹奏技术,最规范的专业化训练。这种观念作为一个大的背景对学琴活动整体状态的影响非常大,它使得学琴活动始终笼罩在一种严肃的氛围中(当然,有些家长就是想让孩子通过学琴对生活严肃起来)。学琴活动到底是一个严肃的学习活动,还是轻松的娱乐活动,是一个甚至关系到家长人生态度的大问题,在此不去讨论。我们这里所强调的是,学琴既是严肃认真的学习活动,又是一个轻松、快乐的娱乐活动。能否取得这样的共识直接影响着孩子甚至家庭生活的氛围。我们在前面的文章中曾经提到过,学琴是 When I learned the piano myself, I heard something like this: Do not allow anything other than homework arranged by the teacher, otherwise it will pop up. So far, many parents still keep this belief in their hearts and do not dare to leapfrog the pool, for fear of children playing something they like and pop-up problems. Generally speaking, this conception is consistent with the pursuit we have always opposed to “too specialized in learning the piano” - requiring the most formal playing technique and the most standardized professional training. As a big background, this concept has a great influence on the overall state of the piano learning activities, which has always kept the piano learning activities in a serious atmosphere (of course, some parents want their children to play a serious role in learning life through learning the piano) . Learning piano activity in the end is a serious learning activity, or relaxed entertainment, is a relationship that concerns the attitude of parents, big issues, not to discuss here. What we emphasize here is that learning piano is not only a serious and serious learning activity, but also a relaxing and happy entertainment. Whether this consensus can be achieved directly affects the atmosphere of children and even family life. As we mentioned in the previous article, learning piano is