“说谎”是孩子惯常采用的方式,以遮掩自己的过失和不当行为。孩子说谎原因多半是两个:1.怕做错事,失去父母的爱;2.不愿面对挫败的结果。改变孩子的说谎行为,关键在于引导孩子把内心的矛盾和惶恐说出来,消除他的误解。同时父母也需要反省自己,是否把成败得失看得太重,使孩子产生输不起的心态。 “Lying” is the usual way children use to hide their negligence and misconduct. The reason why children lie mostly are two: 1. Afraid of doing wrong, losing the love of parents; 2. Unwilling to face the result of frustration. The key to changing a child’s lying behavior is to guide the child to express his inner contradictions and feelings of fear and eliminate his misunderstanding. At the same time parents also need to reflect on their own, whether the success or failure of too much success, so that children can not afford to lose the mentality.