在中学生的心理咨询中,经常有同学问:“父母和老师总是对我们说,要专心读书,过早与异性交往会分散学习的精力;他们动不动就说我们早恋,会影响学习。我们天天在一个教室里上课,不是像一家人一样嘛,为什么不能交往?可是我们如何与家长和老师沟通呢?”奥地利著名诗人里尔克,在本世纪初写出描述青春情感的《爱之歌》:“我怎么能够抑制住我的灵魂,/不让它触动你的灵魂?/我怎能越过你把它奉献给别的事物?/啊,我多么想在黑暗中把它掩藏,/让它陪伴某一件失落之物,/在一个无人知晓的寂静的地 In the middle school students’ psychological counseling, students often ask: “Parents and teachers always tell us that we should concentrate on reading books, premature and heterosexual interactions will disperse the energy of study; they will always say that we have puppy love and will affect our learning. Why do not we interact with parents and teachers? ”Austrian famous poet Rilke wrote a song of“ love of love ”describing the youthful feelings in the beginning of this century. : "How can I restrain my soul, / let it touch your soul? / How can I dedicate it to something else beyond you? / Oh, how much I want to hide it in the dark, / let it Accompany with something lost, / In an unknown silence