我们常说,父母真难做,真累。可是,我发现,很多父母都特别喜欢没事找事,无意识地给自己增加难度。比如,孩子吃饭吃得好好的,父母会冷不丁给孩子夹菜,打破孩子原本专注的世界。也许,孩子会因为讨厌你夹的菜,而变得不肯再吃饭。这个时候,父母又得花时间去安抚。教育孩子,从某种程度上来说,是父母与孩子的PK。所以,需要用到很多“战术”:知己知彼、投其所 We often say that parents really hard to do, really tired. However, I found that many parents are particularly fond of nothing to do, unconsciously to increase their difficulty. For example, children eat well and eat, parents will be cool to give their children food, breaking the child’s original focus on the world. Maybe, children will not eat because they hate the dishes you’ve got. At this time, parents have to spend time to appease. To educate children, to some extent, is the PK of parents and children. So, need to use a lot of “tactics ”: confidante, cast their place