有人说，琢磨人本就是一门学问，琢磨人的目的还是为了更好地“算计人”——或称作“玩人”。有一位退休多年的老领导说：“我琢磨人是为了使用人、培养人、管理人，还要挽救那些犯错误的人，和现在社会上的琢磨人不是一回事。”曾有同事在一起时抱怨说：“现在人与人之间的关 Some people say that people are pondering this is learned, pondering people’s purpose or in order to better “calculate people” - or as “playing”. One senior leader who has been retiring for many years said: “I think it is not the same thing to use people, train people, managers, save those who make mistakes, and now people in society.” Some colleagues When complaining together: "Now the relationship between people