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什么样的性格才算合适,选择另一半是找性格相近还是性格互补的呢?社会心理学家西奥多·纽科姆在1961年进行过一个实验。他让性格相似的学生住在一起,也让性格相异的学生一起居住。结果发现,性格相似的同学彼此更友善,而且容易成为好友;而那些性格相异的同学即使天天生活在同一个屋檐下,依旧难以相互喜欢并建立友谊。大量的实验研究都证明了人际吸引的相似性原则。许多时候,正是因为那个人有着和自己相近的一些地方,才让我们对对方的好感爆棚,产
What kind of personality is considered appropriate, choose the other half is to find similar or personal character? Social psychologist Theodore Newcom had an experiment in 1961. He lives together with students of similar personalities and also allows students of dissimilar character to live together. The results showed that similar personality classmates are more friendly to each other and easy to become friends; and those who have different personality even if living in the same house every day, it is still difficult to love each other and build friendship. A large number of experimental studies have proved the principle of similarity of interpersonal attraction. Many times, it is precisely because that person has some similarities with himself