家长可以从两个方面教给孩子良好的行为举止。第一是告诉孩子什么应该做,如何去做才为你所喜欢。孩子按照你的要求努力去做时,你要夸奖他,鼓励他的努力。同时,你自己应以身作则,并要求家庭成员以至客人遵循一些基本的行为准则。孩子长到一定年龄,你要同他讨论别人的行为举止,以使孩子明白你讨厌哪些行为,赞赏哪些行为。 Parents can teach their children good behavior in two ways. The first is to tell the child what to do and how to do it as you like. When your child strives to do what you want, you have to praise him and encourage him to work hard. At the same time, you should set an example yourself and ask family members and guests to follow some basic codes of conduct. Children grow up to a certain age, you have to discuss with others about their behavior, so that children understand what you hate, praising what behavior.