日常生活中,有很多人尤其妇女居多,被称为“刀子嘴,豆腐心”,这个词是形容一个人虽然嘴上说得严厉,但却有着一副热心肠。可是仔细想想,也许只有真正了解他们的人才会理解他们的好意,不介意他们那苛刻的言语。更多的人对待外人和颜悦色,言谈谨慎,对待自己的家人则不注意措辞,想说什么就说什么,并不在乎对方的感受。他们没有想到,越亲近的人越在乎你说的话,而面对苛刻的话语,受到的伤害也最大。 In daily life, there are many people, especially women, who are often referred to as “knifed mouths and tofu hearts.” The term describes a person who, although speaking harshly, has an enthusiastic heart. But think about it, maybe only those who really know them will understand their good intentions, not mind their harsh words. The more people treat the outsider with good looks, cautious conversation and treatment of their own family, they do not pay attention to the wording, what they want to say and do not care about each other’s feelings. They did not think that the closer they were speaking, the harder they were in the face of harsh words.