你也是这样吗?好辛苦,也真的好委屈。是谁让你不再是一个姿态舒展的妈妈,而更像一个随时可能犯错、被老师无情批评的小学生?“爸爸妈妈哪个更重要?”这是一个我非常讨厌的问题。记忆中第一次被这样提问,是发生在一次专题采访快要结束的时候,电话连线另一端的记者,突然把这个问题丢给了我,然后紧接着,他就自问自答地总结说,“所以我们是不是可以这样概括——对于孩子,尤其是年龄偏小的小孩子来说,妈妈在家庭教育中的作用和影响力,就是要远远地大于爸爸?”当然不是啊!当时的我,是很为对方的这种先入为主,一定要生硬地得出一个他们预设的结论而气愤的。尤其是在此之前, Are you the same? Tough, really good grievance. Who let you no longer be a gesture of stretching the mother, but more like a mistake may be made at any time, the teacher mercilessly criticized the primary? “Mom and Dad which is more important?” This is a very annoying question. For the first time in memory, this question was asked when a special interview was about to end, and the reporter at the other end of the telephone connection suddenly dropped the question to me. Then, shortly afterwards, he summed up his own question and answer, “So we can not be generalized that - for children, especially young children, mom’s role and influence in family education, is far greater than the father?” Of course not! At that time, I was very angry with each other for such preconceptions and must bluntly come to their own conclusion. Especially before that,