这是一个过剩的时代。过多的资讯,但是更多的是垃圾资讯;过多的文字,但是更多的是粗糙文字;甚至更多的朋友,但是更多是酒肉朋友,熙熙攘攘,只为利来。在这样的环境下,做一个真朋友很难,而做一个诤友则难乎其难。因为诤友意味着敢于对朋友说真话,甚至说一些不怎么舒服的真话。但是这些话确实具有启示价值,甚至“一语道破天机”。既然如 This is an era of excess. Too much information, but more is the junk information; too much text, but more rough text; and even more friends, but more wine and drink friends, bustling, only to benefit. In such an environment, it is hard to be a true friend and difficult to be a friend. Because Zuyou means daring to tell the truth to your friends, even to say some uncomfortable truths. But these words do indeed have enlightenment value, and even “a secret language”. Since