日常生活中，常听到亲朋好友间相互祝愿的一句话是：“早日发财”，言外之意就是发财是幸福的。但笔者认为有时吃亏亦是幸福，特别是手握方向盘，脚踩“鬼门关”的驾驶员更是如此。据报载，某地一名叫红梅的姑娘出嫁那天，村子里格外热闹，送新亲吃喜酒的人挤满了七辆大小轿车? In daily life, I often hear the words of friends and relatives wishing each other good fortune: “getting rich sooner,” implying that the idea of ​​making fortune is happiness. But I think it is sometimes a loss of happiness, especially holding the steering wheel, the foot of the “Ghost Gate” driver even more so. It is reported that somewhere a girl named Hongmei marry that day, the village is particularly lively, to send new parents eat wedding people packed with seven cars?