沙洛维同他的搭档梅耶,可以说是共同发现了“情商”。1987年,沙洛维和搭档杰克·梅耶都还是青年心理学家。一天,梅耶来到沙洛维刚购置的新房帮助装修。他们一边粉刷墙壁,一边讨论心理学。在给客厅墙壁上第二层涂料时,梅耶哀叹说,智商理论从未系统关注过情绪;沙洛维也抱怨,那些研究人类情绪的学者,似乎对人们处理自身和他人情绪的不同方式兴趣索然。 Salow with his partner Meyer, can be said to be co-discovered “EQ ”. In 1987, Shalowy and partner Jack Meyer were still young psychologists. One day, Mayer came to Sallo just bought a new home to help decorate. They paint the wall while discussing psychology. Meyer lamented, while lamenting the second layer of paint on the wall of the living room, that IQ theory had never systematically focused on emotions and that Salow also complained that those who studied human emotions seemed to be interested in different ways people deal with themselves and others’ emotions dull.