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在日常生活和工作中,我们与别人交往都希望顺畅愉快,然而,在我们身边可能不时会遇到一种很“别扭”的人。他在单位里做什么都不行,跟高手低,言行不一,还爱挑剔别人,与谁也不来,动不动与人争吵;在家里好吃懒做,颐指气使,花别人的钱不心疼,从不顾及别人的情绪和感受。总之,让人烦恼,可又拿他没办法。所以,可将这样的人称之为所谓的“滚刀筋”。无论在家、在单位,若是天天与这样的人打交道,真是一种灾难。近年来,在心理咨询工作中,遇到过为数不少的这
In our daily life and work, we want to be smooth and enjoyable with others. However, we may occasionally encounter a very “awkward” person around us. He does not do anything in the unit, with the master low, different words and deeds, but also love picky other people, do not come with anyone, always arguing with people; laziness at home, hesitation, spend the money of others do not feel bad, never mind others Emotions and feelings. In short, annoying, but can not get him again. So, such people can call the so-called “hobbing ”. No matter at home, in the unit, if every day with such people dealing, really a disaster. In recent years, in the psychological counseling work, encountered a large number of this