陈一一般说,自卑的心理特点是这样的:●他自身对自己的看法是不客观的,或者说对自己还没有健康和客观的标准。没有良好的自知之明。●他太关注别人对自己的判断和看法。外界任何的判断和反应都会让反应过度。●他喜欢比较,但标准有偏差。他因为在乎自己,所以要通过比较来确定自己的定位和生存的方式,所以,他的满足和愉快感更多的是来自于比较。他只和好的比较,不和坏的比,找错了比较的对象,也因此在相对封闭的环境里对自己没有了信心。 In general, Chen Yi’s psychological characteristics of inferiority are as follows: ● His own opinion of himself is either unobservable or he has no standard of health and objectivity. There is no good self-knowledge. ● He is too concerned about other people’s own judgment and opinion. Any outside judgment and reaction will make overreaction. ● He likes to compare, but the standard deviation. Because he cares about himself, he wants to determine his own way of positioning and survival through comparison. Therefore, his satisfaction and happiness are more from comparisons. He compares favorably with bad ones, finds the wrong subject, and thus has no confidence in himself in a relatively closed environment.