心理学上有一种“瓦伦达心态”。瓦伦达是美国一个著名的高空走钢丝表演者,在一次重大的表演中,不幸失足身亡。他的妻子事后说,我知道这次一定要出事,因为他上场前总是不停地说,这次太重要了,不能失败,绝不能失败;而以前每次成功的表演,他只想着走钢丝这件事本身,而不去管 Psychology there is a “Wallenda mentality.” Wallenda, a famous American high-altitude tightrope walker, unfortunately lost his life in a major performance. His wife said afterwards, I know this must be an accident, because he played always keep saying that this is too important, can not fail, must not fail; and before each successful performance, he only thought Tightrope this matter itself, not to control