女同学打来的电话我们很少在儿子面前强调男生女生,而是说“同学”。平时我们总是提醒他,要跟同学搞好团结。可是儿子有一次从一位同学家回来跟我说:“人家阿姨说了,最好只跟男生交往,不跟女生交往,女生早熟,想法多,一跟她们来往就完了。” Calls from female students We seldom emphasize boys and girls in front of our sons, but say “classmates”. Usually we always remind him to do a good job with the students unity. But once my son came back from a classmate, he said to me: "Auntie said, it is best to only deal with boys, not to deal with girls, girls are precocious, have more ideas, and come and go with them.