真正的成功者,不是先抢跑几步的人,而是既有速度和动力,又有耐心和信心的人。1.不要操之过急,揠苗助长。我们的多数孩子都是聪明、可爱的,他们勤奋好学,可惜很多孩子在我们的教育过程当中,逐渐地被毁掉了。其中一半是被家长毁掉的。主要原因是操之过急、过于恐慌、拔苗助长等等。成人们这种过强的功利心,希 The true successor, not the man who first tried a few steps, but the man of speed and motivation, of patience and confidence. 1. Do not hurry, Saplings help. Most of our children are smart and cute, they are diligent and studious. Unfortunately, many children are gradually being destroyed in our education. Half of them were ruined by parents. The main reason is too hasty, too panic, destructive power and so on. Such an overly strong utilitarian heart, hope