人们常常会发现这样一个现象,面对领导、同事和客户,我们会客客气气、彬彬有礼。但是,面对亲人,我们却毫无顾忌、任性无礼。究其原因,是我们知道,假如对领导、同事等外人发脾气,很可能损害彼此的关系,带来严重后果。而“亲人”是比“外人”更稳固的一种关系,即使我们言行出格,他们也不会计较,多会宽容 People often find such a phenomenon, the face of leadership, colleagues and customers, we will be polite, courteous. However, in the face of their loved ones, we have no scruples, wayward rudeness. The reason for this is that we know that if we lose our temper to other leaders such as leaders and colleagues, we are likely to undermine each other’s relations and bring about serious consequences. And “loved ones ” is a more stable relationship than “outsider ”, even if we demeanor, they will not care about, will be more tolerant