不知从哪一天开始,儿子有了个口头语‘好的呀“或者”随便了“。我征求他意见的时候,听到的几乎就是这两句话。很多人都羡慕我说:看你儿子多听话!开始我还沾沾自喜,可是渐渐地就产生了疑虑,这种所谓的”听话“真的就好吗?终于因为一件事老公批评了孩子:自己连个主意都没有,还像个男子汉吗!这时儿子已经上小学四年级了。 I do not know from which day my son has a spoken word of ’yes’ or ’whatever’. When I sought his advice, I heard almost these two words. Many people envy me saying Your son more obedient! At first I was still complacent, but gradually have doubts, this so-called ”obedient" really like? Finally because of one thing her husband criticized the child: even their own ideas are not, Also like a man! At this time the son has reached the fourth grade in primary school.