现代人常遇到此类窘况:在莫名等级的前提下,用握手来造次对方和自己。握手是一种肢体语言,它发出的是一种关系信号。作为一种语言,自有它的语法与词汇,你不遵守,就会造出“病句”来。自古以来,执礼常常是上对下、尊对卑而发生的。在这种约定俗成中,现代握手礼仪也是由高职位的人或者女人、长者先伸手。如果该次序反了,就如同“故事”这个词的次序倒过来变成“事故”一样,完全不是原来那个味儿。 Modern people often encounter such predicament: In the inexplicable level under the premise of using handshake to create each other and themselves. Handshake is a body language, it sends a relationship signal. As a language, its own grammar and vocabulary, you do not comply, it will create “disease sentences ” to. Since ancient times, rituals have often come from the bottom to the bottom, respecting the humble. In this convention, modern handshakes are also held by high-ranking people or women. If the order is reversed, it is not the same as the “accident” in the same way as the “story” in the reverse order.