重在参与,快乐就行,不必斗得你死我活,否则适得其反,影响了团结,破坏了心情。那天在广场下棋,本就算是高手的我加上运气特别好,与公认的下棋高手老李对弈时,他竟接连输我四盘。争强好胜的他,气得脸色铁青,说不胜上一盘不收兵。我知道他性格,且此时已近中午,该回家做午饭 Emphasis on participation, happiness on the line, do not have to fight your life and death, or counterproductive, affecting unity and undermined the mood. Playing chess in the square that day, even if the master of me plus the luck is particularly good, and the recognized chess master Li play chess, he actually lost me four successive. Vigorous and courageous he, angry face pale, can not get away on a plate. I know his character, and at this time almost noon, the home for lunch