我大学毕业后参军,现转业教书。虽然别人认为我应该自豪,可是我却很苦恼,觉得自己很虚伪。我偶遇一个女孩,谈得很投机,我们有意成为恋人关系,但我却对她说了谎。我把自己拔得很高(即把毕业的大学拔高,把任教的学校拔高),现在我想对她说实话,可又怕失去她。请你帮我深刻地解脱一下,好吗? 山西李缘李缘: 你好!这件事上,我的观点是,你早晚要对她说实话,早说比晚说好。 I joined the army after graduating from college, is now transferred to teach. Although others think I should be proud, but I am very distressed, I feel very hypocritical. I met a girl, talkative, and we intended to be lovers, but I lied to her. I put myself very high (that is, the university graduating high, the teaching school ascending), and now I want to tell her the truth, but afraid of losing her. Please help me deeply relieved, okay? Shanxi Li margin Li Yuan: Hello! This matter, my point is that sooner or later you want to tell her the truth, as early as said, said good.