只要孩子能保持乐观的心态,有良好的自主意识,他就能得到真正的快乐。带儿子逛超市的时候,我问他需要买什么零食及哪种学习用品。他说:“妈妈,您定吧,您买什么我就要什么,我喜欢您帮我拿主意。”这时,路过我们身边的一对母女诧异地看了又看,那个女孩还小声说:“这个哥哥都这么大了,还要妈妈帮忙,都不知道自己想要什么,也不嫌难为情。”那 As long as the child can maintain an optimistic attitude and have a good sense of autonomy, he can get real happiness. With my son visiting the supermarket, I asked him what kind of snacks he wanted to buy and what kind of school supplies. He said: “Mom, you set it, what you buy I want, I like you to help me get the idea. ” At this time, passing by a pair of mother and daughter around us looked at it in surprise, that girl also Whispered: “This brother is so big, but also to help her mother, do not know what they want, nor embarrassed.”