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在家庭教育中,如何奖励孩子,该不该奖励孩子,一直是一个值得研讨的热门话题。记得笔者曾到打通矿区去家访,当采煤队长的李师傅对笔者道:他父子俩都是足球迷,儿子一直想要一套名牌球衣和一个高档赛球,但儿子的成绩总是在60分到70分之间,李师傅便以每科成绩80分作为条件答应了儿子的要求。第一学期下来儿子要的东西虽然没得到手,但离李师傅的要求已很接近。第二学期,儿子奋力闯过80分大关,李师傅承诺兑现。后来儿子进入重点高中,又考上大学。可见,适当给予奖励对孩子的学习和进步可以起到一定的积极作用。
In family education, how to reward children, should not reward children, has always been a hot topic worth discussing. I remember I had to get through the mine to go home visits, when the captain Lee’s master Lee told me: his father and son are football fans, the son has always wanted a set of brand-name jerseys and a high-end game, but his son’s performance is always 60 Divided into 70 minutes, Master Lee will score 80 points per subject as a condition of his son’s request. Although the first semester did not get what the son wanted, it was close to Master Li’s request. The second semester, his son struggled through the 80 mark, Master Lee promised cash. Later, the son entered the key high school, and admitted to college. Can be seen that the appropriate rewards for children’s learning and progress can play a positive role.