“授人以鱼,不如授之以渔。”出自于《老子》一书。说的是送给别人一条鱼能解决他一时之饥,却不能解决长久之需,如果想让他永远有鱼吃,与其送他鱼,不如教会他钓鱼的方法。这句话表明:要想帮助别人解决问题,还不如传授给他解决问题的方法。要传授给他人知识,不如传授给他人学习知识的方法。但我以为:在教给他人解决问题的方法和途径的时候,培养和激发他人积极解决问题的兴趣和欲望更为重要。“授人以鱼,不如授之以渔。”对于我们的孩子来说,这句话非常适用。作为家长,我们总是想方设法地保护孩子,越俎代庖。殊不知,我们尽可能地为孩子所做的一切,在某种程度上反而是害了孩子。这就是目前 “Give people a fish, it is better to grant the fishing. ” From “Lao Tzu” book. Saying that giving someone else a fish can solve his temporary hunger can not solve the long-term needs. If you want him to have fish forever, rather than teach him how to fish. This sentence shows that: To help others solve the problem, not as good as to teach him to solve the problem. To impart knowledge to others, it is better to teach others the knowledge to learn. But I think it is even more important to cultivate and inspire others to actively solve the problem of interest and desire while teaching others ways and means to solve the problem. “To teach people to fish, it is better to grant fishing. ” For our children, this sentence is very applicable. As parents, we always try our best to protect our children. As everyone knows, what we do for our children as much as possible, to a certain extent, is harmful to children. This is the present