读初一的儿子做完作业了,我顺手拿过作业簿。说:“孙欣,爸爸看看你做得怎么样?”刚要翻看,他猛然伸手夺了过去,不容置疑地说:“这是我的日记。”那神态分明在表示,别人没有权力动他的日记簿。这些日子以来,我渐渐发觉孩子变得陌生起来。我好心检查他的作业,他却漫不经心,好像并不希罕似的。以前有什么事情,总喜欢跟我讲,经常向我问这问那,在他的心目中似乎我什么都知道。现在呢?我和孩子之间没有多少“共同语言”了。跟同学讲话,他倒眉飞色舞,兴致颇高,跟我讲话却常显 I read the first son finish homework, and I took my homework book. Said: “Sun Xin, my dad to see how well you do?” Just to look over, he suddenly reached out and took over, indisputably said: “This is my diary.” That expression of disposition that others have no power Move his diary book. These days, I gradually find my child unfamiliar. I kindly check his homework, but he carelessly, it seems not unusual. I had always liked to talk to me and asked me often to ask that, in my mind, I seem to know everything. Now? There is not much “common language” between me and my children. Speaking with his classmates, he turned his eyebrow and danced, high spirits, but often talked to me