花样的年华,花样的时光,我们大家都处在这个色彩斑斓的季节,却总是因为这样或那样的事情引起争执,甚至大打出手,使原本阳光灿烂的时光,留下不该有的阴影创伤。为什么不对周围的人宽容呢? 每个人都有自尊心,冲突起来自然不会相让。但如果你懂得宽容,懂得忍让,懂得理解别人,那么你就是潇洒的。正如雨果所说的:“世界上最宽阔的是海洋,比海洋更宽阔的是天空,比天空更宽阔的是人的胸怀。”这就是宽容。宽容是一种巨大的人格力量,它能产生莫大的凝聚力和感染力,使人愿意团结在你周围。宽容也是一种豁达和挚爱,就如一泓清泉,浇灭怨恨嫉妒焦虑之火,这样可以化冲突为祥和,化干戈为玉帛。 All sorts of years, the tricks of the time, all of us in this colorful season, but always because of one or the other things cause a dispute, or even fight, so that the original sunny time, leaving should not have shadow trauma . Why not tolerate the people around it? Everyone has self-esteem, the natural conflict will not give up. But if you know how to be tolerant, know how to be patient, know how to understand others, then you are smart. As Hugo put it: “The widest part of the world is the sea. It is the sky wider than the ocean. It is the human mind that is broader than the sky.” "This is tolerance. Tolerance is a great power of personality, it can produce great cohesion and appeal, so that people are willing to unite around you. Tolerance is also a kind of open-minded and beloved, like a clear spring, to quench the resentment of envy and anxiety fire, so that the conflict can be reconciled peace and harmony.