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生活中,我们往往可以从一个人的说话上,看出一个人的修养与格局。古人云:“锦上添花易,雪中送炭难。”而当别人处在雪中的时候,若对其奚落挖苦、恶语相加,那这个人势必是个伪君子、真小人,至少也是小肚鸡肠的人。《世说新语·品藻》中讲了一个故事:东晋大臣桓温向来与殷浩不和,一次,殷浩率军进取中原,恰被前秦击败,损兵折将。第二年,又遭人伏击,大败还朝。桓温趁机落井下石,上
In life, we often can see one’s self-cultivation and pattern from one’s speaking. The ancients said: “The icing on the cake easy, timely help.” “And when others are in the snow, if the abusive, verbal abuse add up, then this person is bound to be hypocrites, really villain, or at least people of the chub. ”Shi Shuo Xin Yu Pin algae" tells a story: the Eastern Jin Dynasty Minister Huan Wen and Yin Hao has always been discordant, once, Yin Hao led the army to forge ahead of the Central Plains, just be defeated by the Former Qin, the loss of soldiers off. The following year, he was ambushed and defeated. Huan Wen took the opportunity to fall under the stone, on