目前学生中普遍存在一种希望得到别人关注和赞扬的心理,如果过于严重,就会成为一个误区。这种学生在得到别人的关注和赞许后,常常会有很大进步,而一旦失去别人的关注和赞许,又会感到老师、同学眼中无他,他的行动无足轻重,从而失去对自己的信心和勇气,学习就会一落千丈。这种心理是学生在家庭和亲朋的爱抚和关心下逐渐形成的。诚然,教师可以利用关注和赞扬去影响学生,鼓励学生,但最终还应能让学生掌握自己,有独立能力,敢于自我评价,走向心理成 At present, there is a common psychology of students who hope to get the attention and praise of others. If they are too serious, they will become a misunderstanding. Such students often get great progress after they receive the attention and approval of others. Once they lose the attention and approval of others, they feel the teacher, the students without him, and their actions are insignificant, losing their confidence and self- Courage, learning will plummeted. This psychology is a gradual formation of the students under the care and concern of the family and friends. Admittedly, teachers can use their concerns and compliments to influence students and encourage their students, but in the end they should also enable students to master themselves, have the ability to be independent, dare to evaluate themselves, and become psychologically