儿童在二岁至五岁期间会经历一个被称之为“第一反抗期”的阶段。此前时时处处唯命是从安然而居的孩子,从这时起便往往开始有了主见,并试图反抗大人。处于这一阶段的孩子,有的甚至在一岁多的时候就已经显示出这样的征候,他们“不要!不要!”地嚷着,企图用这样的手段抗拒大人的指令,希望按自己的想法行事。这种转变的确会令年轻的父母倍感意外,他们一直竭尽所思地关爱着孩子,面对这样的变化,却无法及时调整关爱的方式来应 Children experience a period called “First Resistance” between the ages of two and five years. After all the time now and life is absolutely safe from children, from this moment often began to have assertive, and tried to resist adults. At this stage, some children even show signs of such a symptom even when they are over the age of one year. They cried in an attempt to resist the instruction of adults in such a way as they want The idea of ​​acting. This change will indeed make young parents feel overwhelmed. They have been trying their best to care for their children. In the face of such changes, they can not adjust the way of care in time.