根据多年观察的经验,我发现一个定律:婚后过得好的女人,都有一种“单身力”。什么是“单身力”呢?就是即使结婚,有了相伴一生的伴侣,仍然保持单身的能力。你有你的岩井俊二和库布里克,他有他的周星驰和罗伯·科恩;你有你的赫塔·米勒和波伏娃,他有他的金庸和梁羽生;你有你的英式下午茶和健身房,他有他的钓鱼竿和博物馆;最好的亲密关系,是两个世界开着 Based on years of experience in observation, I found a law: a good woman married, there is a “single power.” What is “single power”? It is even with the marriage, accompanied by a lifetime partner, still maintain the ability of single. You have your Iwai Junji and Kubrick, he has his Stephen Chow and Rob Cohen; you have your Geta Miller and Beauvoir, he has his Jin Yong and Liang Yusheng; you have your British afternoon tea and gym, he has his fishing rod and museum; the best intimacy is that the two worlds are open