A 娟娟: 你好!很高兴能和你交流,在心理学的意义上谈谈对生活的看法。你的信谈了很多,包括你自己的个性、你的工作、你的家庭和你的感情。可以看出,你其实并没有心理方面的病症,折磨着你的是一种更根本的东西,一种模糊而巨大的不安,一种对于意义、价值和丰富人生的强烈渴望与追求。这种带有终极意义的问题引发的痛苦思索与现实相碰撞,使你的心理暂时失衡了。从某种意义上说,只有有热情、有理想,对自己生命负责的人,才会有这种烦恼。所以,你的这种烦恼的存在从一个侧面证实你不是一个浑浑噩噩的 A Juanjuan: Hello! Nice to be able to communicate with you and to talk about your life in the psychological sense. Your letter talks a lot, including your own personality, your job, your family and your feelings. As you can see, you are in fact not psychologically ill and afflicting you is a more fundamental thing, a vague and immense anxiety, a strong desire and pursuit of meaning, value and rich life. This pessimistic thinking of the problem with the ultimate meaning collides with the reality, leaving your mind temporarily unbalanced. In a sense, only those who are passionate, have an ideal and are responsible for their own life will have such troubles. So, the existence of your troubles confirms from one side that you are not an unexamined one