梅子姐姐:你好!我又有生活中的难题想跟姐姐说了。我记得小时候我跟爸爸很聊得来,可是现在跟爸爸在一起,我不知道该跟他聊什么。我记得小时候爸爸很疼我,总是夸我长得可爱。现在我弄一个新发型,总喜欢像以前一样问爸爸:“你觉得我这样好不好看?”爸爸他老是说:“难看死了!”这让我感到很伤心。我不懂,为什么爸爸变得不再像以前一样了?我从爸爸那得到的答案就是——因为我己经长大。现在我也会像小时候一样想要依在爸爸的肩上,可是爸爸总是推开我,爸爸总是对我说:“长大了,不能跟爸爸太亲近了。”姐姐,我想和爸爸像以前一样好。我该怎么做呢?琳琳 Plum sister: Hello! I have a life problem to say with my sister. I remember when I was a kid, I talked to my father very much, but now with my dad, I do not know what to talk to him. I remember my father hurt me, always praise me look cute. Now I get a new hairstyle, always like to ask my dad as before: “Do you think I’m so good? ” Daddy he always said: “ugly death! ” It made me feel very sad. I do not know why daddy is no longer the same as before, and the answer I got from daddy was because I grew up. Now I also like to be on my father’s shoulders like I was a kid, but my father always pushed me away and my dad always said to me: “When I grow up, I can not be too close to my father.” "Sister, I think And father is as good as before. What should I do?