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在现代社会里,约会被伪装成一个休闲活动,但它的本质是不折不扣的“你考验我、我考验你”的体力+劳力+投资的劳动。美国作家莫伊拉·威格尔在26岁的时候遇到了一个比自己年长的男人,但是这个人伤透了她的心。她爱慕他,他爱慕的是她对他的崇拜,以及他前女友的崇拜。只要两个女人能够容忍这样的安排,他似乎非常满足于周旋在两个人之间,“我们为什么约会?”威格尔问他。他回答说:“难道不是每个人都只是想过得开心吗?”对威格尔来说,这种约会一点都不开心。于是她投入了对“约会”的研究中,对她来说,这种研究就像
In modern society, dating is disguised as a leisure activity, but its essence is out-and-out “you test me, I test you ” physical strength + labor + investment work. American writer Moira Weeger encountered a man older than himself at the age of 26, but this person penetrated her heart. She loved him, and what he loved was her admiration for him and his ex-girlfriend’s adoration. As long as two women were able to tolerate such an arrangement, he seemed very content to deal with the relationship between the two, “Why do we date?” He replied: “Does not everybody just want to have fun?” “It was not a pleasure for Weigel. So she put into the study of ”dating ", for her, this research is like