一、开心没有谁愿意不开心,可是为什么还有那么多的人拥有很好的物质生活依然不开心呢?一个人是否开心,更多的时候与金钱无关,而与心境有关。快乐,与其说是个性使然,不如说是一种素质和能力。快乐,需要豁达的心胸、乐观的心态和足够的安全感。不因为一些不好的事情耿耿于怀,能够迅速地从委屈、伤痛中走出来,不为过去所累,不为未来而忧,活在当下,自我悦纳,自得其乐。所以,为人父母者对孩子要慈爱,要让孩子在情感上有足够的温暖和归属感;要求孩子时可以 First, happy no one is willing to be unhappy, but why so many people have a good material life is still not happy? A person is happy, more often have nothing to do with money, but with the mood. Happiness is not so much personality as it is a quality and ability. Happy, need open-minded, optimistic attitude and enough sense of security. Not because of some bad things to heart, can quickly out of grievances and pains, not for the past tired, not for the future and worry, living in the moment, self-acceptance, enjoyment. Therefore, parents should be kind to children, to make children have enough emotionally warmth and belonging; when children are required