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最近,南京的一些心理学专家在调查中发现,孩子最感恐惧的是家长对他们说出如下的话: 1.“傻瓜、无用的东西。” 2.“你简直是个废物。” 3.“你又做了错事,简直是坏透了。” 4.“住嘴!你怎么就是不听话呢?” 5.“我说不行就是不行!” 6.“我再也不管你了,随你的便好了。” 7.“求求你别再这样做好吗?” 8.“你做这件事,真让我伤心透了。” 9.“你若考一百分,我就给你买XXX。” 10.“你可真行,竟能做出这种事。”孩子为什么害怕听家长说出这样的话?
Recently, some psychologists in Nanjing found during the investigation that the most frightening thing for children was that their parents said the following to them: 1. “Fool, useless stuff.” 2. “You’re a waste.” 3. “You ”It’s a bad thing.“ 4. ”Shut up! Why do not you listen to it?“ 5. ”I can not do that!“ ”I do not care about you anymore, with you It will be fine. “7.” Please do not do that anymore? “8.” It’s a sad thing for you to do it. “9.” If you test a hundred percent, I’ll give it to you Buy XXX. “10.” You can do this, can do such a thing. "Why children are afraid to listen to parents to say such a thing?