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在我们现代的家庭里,爸爸妈妈的角色已经转换,爸爸不再是严厉的父亲,妈妈也不是那个慈爱的母亲,古训里的那些话现在听起来都像上上一个世纪里的教科书,在孩子的眼里,简直就是慈父严母,究竟是世道变了,还是人变了?不管怎么说,这是一个盛行恶毒的后妈和一个没有主见的爹的时代,恶毒的后妈永远做事干脆,要求严格,主意坚定,像800头牛都拉不回来的大奔,没有主见的爹却是墙头草,时向偏向恶妈,时而偏向孩子,就像一个泥瓦工,和和稀泥,打打腻子,让妈妈和孩子之间的矛盾不激化,不恶化,像一个润滑剂,谁轻谁重,不言而喻,不可缺的两个人里,恶妈,就像孩子面前一面鲜亮的旗帜,导引着他们前行的方向……
In our modern family, the roles of father and mother have been transformed. Dad is no longer a severe father and mother is not the loving mother. The words in the Old Testament now sound like textbooks from the last century. In the eyes of a father and mother, is it really a civic mother, whether the world has changed, or changed? In any case, this is a popular evil stepmother and an opinionated father era, virulent stepmother always do things simply, requirements Strict, the idea is firm, like 800 cattle do not come back to the big Ben, there is no opinion of the father is the wall grass, when the preference for the mother, sometimes to the child, like a bricklayer, and mud, playing putty, So that the conflict between mother and child does not intensify, not worse, like a lubricant, who light weight, it goes without saying that the indispensable two people, the mother, like a bright flag in front of children, guidance In the direction of their forward ...