如果有几位朋友聚在一起愉快地说笑,这时你刚好走进房间,当你一进来,她们都闭口不言。于是,你认为她们正在谈论你,并且谈的不是好话,因而耿耿于怀。过分在乎别人的目光其实是给自己心里加了一层负担,探究这种在乎心理不外乎三种原因:多疑、不自信和自我。不自信者,通常想得到外界的认可,也因此时刻注意自己的言行是否符合大众的口味,一旦碰上他人带有不满和指责的目光,心里便会焦虑万分,以为是自己做错了什么。但事实上,别人也许只是随便 If there are a few friends gathered happily, then you just walked into the room, when you come in, they are silent. So, do you think they are talking about you, and they are not good words to talk about. Too much care about other people's eyes is in fact to add a layer of their own heart to explore this care nothing more than three psychological reasons: the suspicious, not self-confidence and self. People who are not confident usually want to get the approval of the outside world. Therefore, they always pay attention to whether their words and actions conform to the tastes of the general public. Once they run into the eyes of others with dissatisfaction and accusation, they will feel anxious and think they are doing something wrong. But in fact, others may just be casual