问:我的女儿现在5岁了,上幼儿园大班。她在幼儿园爱哭,对自己没信心,特别注意别人对她的看法。在家里,要我陪她玩。有时我没陪她玩,她就以哭、顽皮捣蛋来引起我注意。每逢这种情况,我都试着和她沟通。有一次,我身体不舒服,就先打水洗脚准备睡觉。她看见后就哭了,嘴里就说一句话:“妈妈不管我,自己先洗了脚。”怎么解释都没用,最后我把她关在卫生间里。在卫生问里,她认错了,放她出来,她还是那句话:“妈妈先洗了脚。”我火起来想打她,但还 Q: My daughter is now 5 years old and kindergarten. She cried in kindergarten, no confidence in himself, with particular attention to other people’s views on her. At home, want me to play with her. Sometimes I did not play with her, she was crying, naughty trick to catch my attention. In each case, I tried to communicate with her. Once, when I was not feeling well, I started to wash my feet and get ready for bed. She cried when she saw it, and said in her mouth: “My mom did not care for me and I first washed my feet.” No explanation of how to use it, and finally I closed her in the bathroom. In health, she admitted it, put her out, she was saying: “Mom first washed his feet.” I fire up to hit her, but also