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缘起网易网友大灰狼求助:和女友恋爱5年,前4年她没有工作,我主动承担大部分开销。刚开始的时候她偶尔出点钱,后来就一分钱不出了。现在她工作一年了,而且工资还比我高一截儿,但出于习惯,她还是让我负责所有的日常开销,把自己所有工资放进银行存定期。我觉得压力很大,想到以后买房子结婚什么的,必须存点钱。所以和她商量可不可以 AA 制。结果她听了3天不和我说话。
The Netizen Netease Netizen help: love and girlfriend 5 years, the first 4 years she did not work, I take the initiative to bear most of the overhead. Occasionally she had some money when she first started, and later she got a penny. Now she’s been working for a year now, and her salary is still a bit higher than me, but out of habit, she keeps me responsible for all my daily expenses and puts all my salary in my bankbook. I think a lot of pressure, think of what to buy a house after marriage, you must save some money. So she can discuss with AA system. She did not talk to me after she listened for 3 days.