我们每个人心里都有一个账户。每一次让对方开心了,做了一些让对方高兴的事,就是在账户里存款。每次让对方哭、受挫折、受痛苦,就是提了款。存款丰厚,许多小问题就可以被原谅。但是如果账户里已经赤字连篇、债台高筑,再来任何一点小事,都可以变成大事。设立情感账户有一个特别重要的原则,就是存款时要投其所好,而不是给己所要。 Each of us has an account in our heart. Every time to make each other happy, do something to make each other happy, is to deposit in the account. Each time you cry to each other, setbacks, suffering, is to mention the money. Savings, many small problems can be forgiven. However, if the account has been deficit, debts, any small event, can become a major event. One of the most important principles in setting up an emotional account is that you should invest your money rather than give it to yourself.