卢悦老师:我做了一件愚蠢透顶的事。今年元旦,我和男友订了婚,双方家长定好了“十一”结婚。此后,男友出差了4个月。但就在这期间,我和一个比自己小3岁的网友见了面,喝醉酒,上了床,此后一发不可收。我的男友稳重成熟,事业有成,是很好的结婚对象;网友则是个自由职业者,性格开朗,和他在一起很开心。在婚前玩玩,然后收心做个好妻子。 Lu Yue teacher: I did a stupid thing. New Year’s Day this year, I was engaged to her boyfriend, both parents set a good “eleven” marriage. Since then, her boyfriend has been on business for 4 months. But in the meantime, I met a friend who was 3 years younger than himself, drunk, got into bed, and got a go. My boyfriend is mature, successful, is a good marriage partner; friends are freelance, cheerful, and he was very happy. Play before marriage, and then recuperate to be a good wife.