不要总揭别人的伤口,说话那么冲,给身边的人泼冷水还一副“我这是为了你好”洋洋自得的神情。会不会说话和阿谀奉承是两码事,基本的尊重一定要有。交谈的最基本准则就是平等,而不是一副优越感的样子,哪怕是朋友也一样。在我看来朋友相处的基本点有三:准时、平等和真诚。 Do not always expose other people’s wounds, talk so red, pouring cold water on the side of people is still a “I am here for your good ” look of foreign pride. Will not talk and flattery are two different things, the basic respect must have. The basic principle of conversation is equality, not a sense of superiority, even for a friend. There are three basic points in my opinion that friends get along: punctuality, equality and sincerity.