我是个普通的国家干部,年初才办理了退休手续,本该在家安度晚年。不想女儿的婚事迟迟得不到解决,如今又出现了更加令父母担忧的节外生枝,想来很是伤脑筋。 事情是这样的:女儿24岁那年初恋,爱上了一个大她8岁的离婚男人。开始我们谁也不知道,直到半年后她对我们说她要结婚,我和她母亲一问,才知道事情的原委。于是我们坚决反对, I am an ordinary state cadre. I did not go through retirement procedures until the beginning of the year and I should have enjoyed my late life at home. Do not want to delay the marriage of her daughter can not be resolved, and now there are more parents worry about the exogenous factors, want to come very nerve-racking. The thing is this: daughter 24 years old first love, fell in love with a large her 8-year-old divorced man. At the beginning, we did not know anyone. Until six months later she told us that she was getting married. When I asked her and her mother, I knew everything about it. So we firmly oppose it.